Exhibitionists

[Maria]

Years ago, I had a past gf who was on the exhibitionist side, and she not only peed her pants in public but she liked to strut her stuff afterwards. Frankly, I didn't find the attention she received as stimulating as she did.

I can't believe I missed this post by PP1.

I would just like to say that your former gf must have been a very unusual woman. I have always been a natural exhibitionist, at least I was like that from about age 30 until I was in my mid 40s. (I am in my early 50s now, and much more reticent.)

It's really hard to wet your pants in public, even harder to blatantly "strut your stuff" about it. I used to be married to a guy who was seriously into kink. He was the manager of a seemingly ordinary hotel restaurant/bar, actually part of the Radisson chain, but about 11:00, when the families and business people went to sleep, the place would fill up with kinksters -- gay guys from the nearby theater group who were just finishing rehearsals, doctors and lawyers who frequented the neighborhood "adult club" which was a very posh place for wife swappers, and then the bdsm crowd with lots of black leather mini-skirts and thigh-high boots who stopped by on their way to an after hours club that did monthly "dungeon" type events.

My husband was always urging me to "express myself" sexually, esp. if it was kinky. I was able to express my exhibitionist side easily enough in such "friendly" company, low-cut blouses, no bra, panty-revealing mini-skirts etc.

BUT...... when the topic came up about my passion for watersports, I just couldn't bring myself to "express myself" in public. Just once, I managed it. My pervert hubby took me to a porno theater and we sat in the back and I really did wet my pants, but we had to get me higher than a kite before I was able to do it.

So once again, I say: This ex girlfriend of yours must have been a VERY unusual woman.

I would be interested to hear any other stories about exhibitionists who wet their pants in public. I doubt if I could bring myself to do it again, but it is the sort of thing I fantasize about and would love to hear anyone's real time experiences.

[PP1]

Maria: I'm sure you've seen the photos from Gator on the sister board. I don't have photos of my GF because these events occurred before cell phones and digital cameras, but I do have several accounts of her wetting in public. I posted one on the old board in response to a request from lhanson. Here's another especially for you.

We'd been together a month or so, and almost from the beginning we shared our fantasies, which happened to coincide with respect to wetting and wet sex. So in the privacy of our home, the bed was often wet and the sex wet, hot and heavy.

One evening after we'd been to the gym, she said that she wanted to stop at a sporting goods store to get some new exercise clothes. She was wearing a pair of my light gray cotton sweat pants. They were loose fitting in the legs but conformed nicely to her butt, which was ample but not fat, and crotch.

As we got out of the car, she was walking around the around the rear to join me so we could head into the store together. She called out "Hey, look here."

Obviously, I turned around to see what she wanted. She was standing with her legs slightly spread and a dreamy look on her face. I knew what the look meant and quickly directed my attention to her crotch. It was darkening and the spot was growing bigger from a wetting in progress.

She peed for maybe five more seconds, not a full bladder-emptying soak, but more than enough to arouse me. She turned around to show me her butt. The wet spot was a typical half moon extending up toward her waist. The front was also typical with some seepage out toward the sides of her thighs and a little running down between them.

I thought she'd want to hop back in the car and beat a path to home for a session in bed. Instead, she walked up to me and put her arm in mine and indicated that we would proceed into the store.

She was 27 at the time, tall with long legs and statuesque figure. She had terrific blue eyes and undyed "dirty blond" hair. She attracted attention in general even if she wasn't of movie star quality beauty.

There wasn't a large crowd in the store, maybe twenty people including personnel milling around toward the front and some others in the various departments. She headed down the main aisle to the clothing section flaunting her situation.

I can tell you that all the guys took a good long leer at her front and then from behind. Most of the women also turned their heads.

My GF was ecstatic and continued her promenade. Instead of stopping to look for clothes, she abruptly turned around and headed back toward the front of the store to give the patrons and employees a second look.

Outside, she grabbed my hand and rushed me to the car. She said "I've always wanted to do that, and now I'm practically cumming. Get me home ASAP." I was sure she'd already gone off in her wet pants and panties; but I was only too eager to comply.

She didn't pee her pants any more before stripping, and her bladder was not anywhere near full. This suggested that she'd wet her pants intentionally for fun and her self gratification. Once in bed, she responded with multiple orgasms that were truly on a level different from those I'd previously shared with her.

[Maria]

Thanks for the details, PP1. If I had the nerve to pull a similar stunt, my boyfriend would probably die and go straight to heaven.

Do you mind if I ask what this woman was like on a personal level and how old she was?

I know one other very credible report of a woman, aged about 40, who frequently wet her pants in public. Unfortunately, it was because she was an emotional train wreck with absolutely no sexual boundaries.

Was this person similar? Or just a frisky exhibitionist with a taste for kink?

[PP1]

As woman, you know a lot more about female sexuality than I possibly can; but, I'll give you my insights.

We weren't together too long--only about a year. She was 27 then (now 51). As you can see, it was the late 80's, and information about urolangia was limited mostly to text books and occasional fiction. We didn't have access to the web or magazines like Nugget. Her wetting proclivity must have been self-oriented and probably something she'd done from puberty.

She told me her ex was grossed out when she had an accident, which, parenthetically, I suspect she staged to see how he would react. Conversely, I told her about one of my former flames who her liked to wet her pants. She mentioned that her sisters were also wetters. One of them was only three years younger, and my GF became very jealous if I even spoke to her. The other was a teenager.

My GF was stable emotionally, so I think the answer to your other question is that she had an exhibitionist streak.

She wet her pants in the house many, many times whether or not I was around. If I wasn't, she'd toss them in the dirty clothing and it became a habit of mine to check the hamper before wash day. If I was around, I don't need to elaborate.

She wet the bed once and often peed during intercourse. From this, I have to think she was personally into the kink, not just trying to arouse me.

She wet her pants in public half a dozen times, so it wasn't a regular event. We lived where there was plenty of cold weather, which may have limited her desire to wet her pants and then go outside.

I attribute one time to desperation because she flooded her jeans just as we got to the car after buying the weekly groceries. The puddle in the parking lot was really large. The other times she either controlled the flow or forced the wetting when she wasn't feeling much of an urge to pee. Thus, the wet spot was more confined to her crotch and inner thighs.

I figured this was a way for her to advertise that she was ovulating. She knew from the reaction of the guys in the store, to say nothing of my own, that many of us are excited by wet pants. She'd had a TL, so conception wasn't an issue. I think she felt liberated by this and wet her pants to excite herself and me as well as some of the guys who would see her.