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    This article from a couple of days ago (Is Peeing 'Just in Case' Bad For You? https://www.nytimes.com/2025/06/03/w...-bathroom.html) examines whether the habit of peeing just before you go to bed (so that you don't have to get up in the middle of the night, or so you don't wet the bed), or before leaving for a long car ride (so that Dad doesn't have to stop the car for a bathroom break) might worsen incontinence problems. I suppose that the phenomenon of "breaking the seal" might be related to this. I've "staged" (or caused) pee accidents by proactively peeing every half hour or so while drinking lots of water before a drive; that ensures that it isn't long after I get in the car and drive before I can't hold it anymore. I wonder how common a cause for accidents this might be.

    The main reason I find this interesting is that it promises a novel approach to narratives about young women wetting. Mom instills in her daughters the fear of using public bathrooms. She also insists that they always pee before a trip so that they can get to their destination without needing a bathroom break in one of those dangerous public bathrooms. Over time, this leads to the girls' weakened pelvic floors. The girls (18 and 20) come home from college for Thanksgiving. They both already have become accident prone. It's time to drive to Grandma's house, which is 4 hours away. Mom makes them both pee before they leave the house. Within a half hour both girls need to pee again. They beg their parents to stop, but Dad says he just wants to get there and Mom reminds them there's no safe place to go. A double wetting in the back seat is inevitable, and it happens after an hour -- the girls have to sit in their urine-soaked panties and jeans. One of them wets a second time when they are a half hour from grandma's. The other tries to hang on, but loses it and wets as she gets out of the car. Mom is livid, Dad is apologetic. Grandma welcomes them inside before realizing that both girls have peed their pants. She says they're far too old not to be potty trained, but then chuckles and tells them that their mother had the same problem when she was their age. Mom relents and admits she put on a diaper before the trip (and peed in it several times -- it has leaked just slightly in a crescent patch of wetness around her left ass cheek) and tells them they'll get to wear diapers on the trip home if they want.

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    This is interesting. I ran across two other articles recently that address similar themes. In one of them, the author, a middle-aged woman with stress incontinence, reports that

    At the advice of my gynecologist, I’d tried daily self-directed Kegel exercises, tampon-like devices designed to prevent leaks by lifting the urethra, and bladder training – or gradually increasing the time between bathroom visits, which I lost interest in pretty quickly. None of these options really worked. [Emphasis supplied]

    So it is not a good idea to "pee just in case," and in some cases, there may actually be some benefit from choosing to hold it longer than necessary. Some doctors apparently believe that you can indeed train your bladder to wait longer.

    https://www.theguardian.com/wellness...sicians-kegels

    https://www.theguardian.com/wellness...-perimenopause

    For those that are unable to get past the paywall at The New York Times, here is a gift link that does not require a subscription or a login:

    https://tinyurl.com/250603NYTDelamatre

    And this link will allow you to download a PDF of the NYT article:

    https://www.sendspace.com/file/1tgtez




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    • #3
      Originally posted by AccidentalTourist View Post
      It's time to drive to Grandma's house, which is 4 hours away. Mom makes them both pee before they leave the house. Within a half hour both girls need to pee again. They beg their parents to stop, but Dad says he just wants to get there and Mom reminds them there's no safe place to go. A double wetting in the back seat is inevitable, and it happens after an hour -- the girls have to sit in their urine-soaked panties and jeans.
      Okay, so... two girls wet their pants in the car during a long trip because Dad refused to stop?

      I have never heard of anything like that happening.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Lawrence View Post

        Okay, so... two girls wet their pants in the car during a long trip because Dad refused to stop?

        I have never heard of anything like that happening.
        Haha, true. I guess it could be changed so that the girls wet themselves only 15 minutes from the house; Dad wouldn't stop because they just left.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by AccidentalTourist View Post

          Haha, true. I guess it could be changed so that the girls wet themselves only 15 minutes from the house; Dad wouldn't stop because they just left.
          I was kidding around LOL

          I think this sort of thing does happen.

          The accidents that we find so interesting and erotic are those that are highly visible, with a noticeable wet patch, and if the girl is laughing or crying about it, or we get to see a pee dance or other signs of desperation leading up to it, that makes it even better.

          But I think a lot of women wet their pants, quite frequently, with relatively small accidents that are not all that noticeable. And they don't make a scene out of it, and they cover it up with a sweater, or they are already wearing a long top, etc.

          Or they are wearing a pad, and it leaks a bit, but you don't see much.

          Much has been written and said about "breaking the seal," but there are many different kinds of incontinence. And people experience it and handle it in different ways. Some people really can pee in their pants a little bit, and then they can hold it long enough to get to a bathroom.

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