1st real sighting

[PP1]

I think you call it "cheek" in the UK. You lucked out one time and got your hand wet in the bargin. For all you know, the gal may have been a pro looking for tricks. I still contend it's not a good idea to approach strange women with wet pants.

[Omo Rashi]

For all you know, the gal may have been a pro looking for tricks.

No. It is a shame that you can think only in directions like this. But as you please. I just repeat it IS a good idea - but only if it is not a "strange woman", in fact.

[Maria]

I showed my bf this post and asked him if he thought anyone would make a pass at me if I casually walked down Santa Monica Pier in slutty clothes with a wet butt.

He answered: "I'll give you a hundred dollars to find out, as long as I can follow behind you and watch if some perv tries for your butt!"

Ah, such fantasies!

By the way, Omo Rashi, where were you during that first incident? You said she didn't speak English. Could you tell what her language was? I often wonder if certain fetishes are more culturally common than others -- as in the 19th century, when bondage and discipline was called "the English vice." In Japan, wetting can be a bit of a cult (which you already know, as your handle clearly shows). Filipina girls wear skirts so short that you can see their panties and they seem to think that's normal. Any idea where she was from?

[Vic]

I think your boyfriend is a "keeper". He sounds like a male version of my Dear Wife Marie- she encourages me to "Push the Envelope"...
Later!- Vic

[Omo Rashi]

... in slutty clothes with a wet butt...

She did not wear slutty clothes! No, she was a "regular" woman, a woman like many women are, type secretary or saleswoman or ... (what you like) !
By the way, this is also true for the other woman (with her boy friend).

By the way, Omo Rashi, where were you during that first incident? You said she didn't speak English. Could you tell what her language was?

Maria, I know well that my English is not that of a native speaker... I speak German, and the woman was from Norway (which I did not know at the beginning, expecting her to be German). Therefore we had to speak English. She was not a hooker or something like that. It happens frequently that Scandinavians come to Germany on big ships to see the country and, of course, have beer (which is awfully expensive in Scandinavian countries, so they may not be fully used to its effect!). They come in groups, and indeed she was in such a group part of which was up and dancing in some distance when the incident took place. A normal tourist woman, not a hooker! I am sure she did not do it to attract attention (on the contrary!). But she was certainly tipsy and thought it was not a big deal to relieve herself like that, also knew that she would stay there just for a few more hours. I really can't tell if she had our fetish. The big point is her reaction (which really left me speechless).

What I want to say is that I had the feeling that also the other girl would have talked to me friendly (and not have "exploded") if there had been more time for it. That is why I think it all depends on how you behave and speak.

[Omo Rashi]

...A number did wet their pants too. One year I noticed a cute brunet that had wet her panties and didn't seem to be bothered by it.

This is still far from the final satisfaction for us, but isn't it something?

It was then that I realized that the only way to find a girl that wets her pants is to create one.

The only way I've found success is to be as loving and kind as possible and convince her that "girls who wet their pants get licked a lot more than girls who don't". That seemed to be as good a start as any.

In that sense (to find a girl who is genuinely into it on her own) I have never been lucky either. I envy those few people who honestly can say they were. It is not the same if you know she does it only because she understood how deep-rooted this wish is.

[Vic]

To Omo Rashi-

I just want to say that your English is EXCELLENT. Many native-born speakers cannot craft a sentence as well as you. I had no idea that English was not your first language until I read your posting.
Mein Deutsch ist sehr schlect. Ich wisse velliech zwei hundert - drei hundert worte. Mein volkabeln ist sehr klein.
Wie geht's- Vic

[Maria]

I also thought English might be your native. Many native speakers make a few grammatical or spelling errors if they post without editing first. So I wasn't sure. I can understand why a Norwegian and a German might speak together in English. That seems to happen quite a lot in Europe.