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I think it might be a bit more common than most people think. My ex-husband used to manage a bar which attracted a lot of really kinky customers. We split up when he got “the job of a lifetime” in Chicago and I didn’t want to go there. I was 38 at the time. I decided to keep hanging out at the bar, not looking for a long term relationship but just blatantly being “everybody’s girlfriend,” having some fun in life and hopefully exploring some of my fetishes. Every Friday and Saturday night would find me perched on the bar stool in a skimpy little tee shirt and denim skirts short enough to reveal two or three inches of “white triangle.” My ex-husband’s pervert pals would buy me drinks and take me home. I was in that lifestyle for about seven years before I got tired of it.
Sometimes, if I liked a guy, I would try to figure out if he was into this fetish. I would say things like: “Oh, don’t make an old gal like me laugh too hard – I might wet my pants – wouldn’t be the first time.” Or I would say: “That song is so beautiful – every time I hear it I just shiver and shake and pee.” Or: “I shouldn’t drink so much. When I sneeze, I’m…uh… accident prone.”
Most guys just didn’t respond, but every few months I would see the light come on in some guy’s eyes, and then I would take it a bit farther, with fairly lewd and crude remarks, and there were a few occasions – maybe once or twice a year – when the guy would be lucky enough to end up with a gal who was a “wet date.”
I also think that there is a very common form of this fetish which is seldom mentioned on boards like this because the people involved are not young and lonely and don’t come here. Many women who have had children find themselves having “stress incontinence” accidents when they get to be about 40, especially if they gain weight and there is more pressure on their bladder. Usually, they are terrified, thinking that the husband or boyfriend will be disgusted by their accidents. But if the guy unexpectedly has a “primal response” – by which I mean a hard-on – the woman is hugely relieved to find herself to be an object of lust rather than disgust. In such situations, it doesn’t take long for the woman’s “accidents” to move into the bedroom and become less than accidental. These people probably don’t really think of themselves as fetishists, but I am guessing that this is actually the most common way in which this fetish is practiced.
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Sometimes, if I liked a guy, I would try to figure out if he was into this fetish. I would say things like: “Oh, don’t make an old gal like me laugh too hard – I might wet my pants – wouldn’t be the first time.” Or I would say: “That song is so beautiful – every time I hear it I just shiver and shake and pee.” Or: “I shouldn’t drink so much. When I sneeze, I’m…uh… accident prone.”
Most guys just didn’t respond, but every few months I would see the light come on in some guy’s eyes, and then I would take it a bit farther, with fairly lewd and crude remarks, and there were a few occasions – maybe once or twice a year – when the guy would be lucky enough to end up with a gal who was a “wet date.”
I also think that there is a very common form of this fetish which is seldom mentioned on boards like this because the people involved are not young and lonely and don’t come here. Many women who have had children find themselves having “stress incontinence” accidents when they get to be about 40, especially if they gain weight and there is more pressure on their bladder. Usually, they are terrified, thinking that the husband or boyfriend will be disgusted by their accidents. But if the guy unexpectedly has a “primal response” – by which I mean a hard-on – the woman is hugely relieved to find herself to be an object of lust rather than disgust. In such situations, it doesn’t take long for the woman’s “accidents” to move into the bedroom and become less than accidental. These people probably don’t really think of themselves as fetishists, but I am guessing that this is actually the most common way in which this fetish is practiced.
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