What is the most common context for a genuine accident?

[Lawrence]

For this question, I am limiting the scope to cases where the girl is holding it for a while and loses control, because she simply cannot get to a bathroom, and is unable or unwilling to use an alternative, such as squatting in an alley or peeing in a bottle. For this question, I am excluding cases of stress incontinence, e.g., laughing, sneezing, coughing, lifting, running, and jumping. (Laughing and sneezing can happen literally anywhere.) Also excluding spontaneous genuine fear/shock wettings, and medical causes like a seizure, or a taser-induced wetting.

Of course, the question is subjective, and the answer will vary across cultures, age groups, and other variables. And the answer may be different for men, for many different reasons.

What do you think is the most common scenario that leads to a genuine accident of the OMG I can't hold it anymore type?

Passenger car stuck in bumper-to-bumper traffic, moving slowly, where you really can't even pull over?

Waiting in a long queue for the bathroom?

Waiting in a long queue for something else, where getting out of line would have some really bad consequences? (Say, for example, the airport security queue, already cutting it close, if you bail out and have to start at the back of the queue, you will miss your flight. And you are not traveling by yourself. :-\ Or waiting in line to get into a nightclub.)

Public transit, e.g., local buses or llight rail?

Handcuffed in the back of a police car?

What else? Where do most accidents happen?

I suppose I would include keyhole syndrome accidents, although that can be kind of a gray area. Some women report experiences where they have no need to go at all until they are approaching the door, and then they have to rush to the toliet and sometimes may not make it. But other women report experiences where they have a mild, non-emergency need to go that suddenly becomes an emergency as the approach the door, and then they lose control before they can get to the bathroom. Either way, it's a sort of Pavlovian psychological trigger that may fall into a slightly different category. Elevator accidents may be a subset of this type, although I suspect that many of these may involve alcohol.

[ed2]

I would say the most common is either drunk bedwetting or driver stuck in traffic. Just my impression, based on what experiences "normal people" (not into omo) tends to share on the internet.

And I think the most common time for accidents is in the early hours on the 1st of January. The whole world has partied that night.

[aqua 2021]

I've known more than my share of women (and girls when I was younger) who've had accidents and many of them quite accident prone. There is a pattern (which of course I love). Pattern one: didn't quite make it on time, with smaller or bigger wettings, urgency incontinence. Pattern two: just holding too long, procrastinating then leading to a wetting, which may overlap with pattern one, but far from always. Of course there is the being unable to get to a toilet as in a traffic jam, on a plane, and endless other possibilities, including taking exams, work situations, etc. Again, can overlap with urgency issues. While I've known some women who've wet the bed, not all that common in my experience, some drunk or stoned, but a few not at all. Then there is of course the drunk and/or stoned awake situation, which mostly lowers both inhibitions and/or realizing how strongly they need to pee, leading to accidents. I've seen quite a few of these, and far from all are major accidents, many end up with not making it on time/having less control. In a few cases I've known women who just said 'fuck it' and wet themselves when stoned or drunk. Not common but I've know a few. Of course many of us have written about these types of accidents, I certainly have. and also some of us have pics/vids of some of these situations. Lots of wet grist for the mill here....

[Juliered]

For me, long lines or places with few toilets, very long traffic jams, or the impossibility of going to the toilet or going early enough are all bad things.

[iwapmp]

For me, long lines or places with few toilets, very long traffic jams, or the impossibility of going to the toilet or going early enough are all bad things.

I think you mean good things

[Aloo]

In cases of any leakage whatsoever, it has to be stress incontinence. During and immediately after pregnancy, the numbers are huge, like genuinely close to half of all women experience it to some extent or another. I'm sure I'm not the only husband on this forum who has been privy to such discussions when their wife has been pregnant or shortly after giving birth, as women tend to lose a lot of inhibitions going through that process (there's not much modesty involved in birthing!). My wife had a group of three friends (two of whom were twin sisters) and all four of them got pregnant around the same time. One of the twin sisters and the other friend definitely had significant issues, as they were vocal about it (particularly when discussing trampoline parks), and I assumed as the sisters were identical twins, there was a very strong chance they both had it. Which would leave my wife as the only one who didn't. Just my damn luck lol.

If we're talking cases were it's a significant amount of urine leakage, I think drunk bed wetting would definitely be next. When those "finger down" TikToks were trending, there was a popular "drunk edition" one in the UK, which started "put a finger down if you have ever been sick in a club or taxi, put a finger down if you've ever pissed the bed...". Being a bit of a loser, I decided to count them, and in 295 women, 103 said they'd pissed the bed, over a third. And whilst no one would say they have pissed the bed when they haven't, there is a chance there were a few girls in there who didn't put their finger down when they had, due to embarrassment of knowing this was going on TikTok. So I think it could genuinely be 35-40%.

Of course, that's not 35-40% of all women, that's 35-40% of the kind of women who would do a "drunk edition" video on TikTok, as part of UK drinking culture, which someone won't do if they're a non-drinker. So this is 35-40% of UK girls, in their 20s, who probably regularly enjoy getting drunk. However, although the prevalence of drunk bedwetting will be far lower than that 35% figure when you include the sensible drinkers and non drinkers, it does show that probably 35-40% of women are vulnerable to wetting the bed if drunk enough.

Bear in mind however, that's across their whole drinking lives. Many will have only done it once, on that crazy night way back when. The number to do it semi frequently would be far lower, and om a per night basis, it will be much lower. If you took 100 very drunk young women to a hotel, 35-40 are not going to wet the bed that night. You might get 3 or 4, I would guess.

The one which is a bit more of a mystery to me is drunk panty wetting. And I think this is far more common than people acknowledge, if you include any kind of urine loss. Big drunk wettings can occur, but they're pretty rare. However, the non-showing, knicker wetting leaks, are no doubt far more common. If you went into a nightclub at midnight and got to check out the underwear on every girl in there, how many may have more than a dot of pee in their panties? Definitely more than the 3-4% who may wet the bed that night, I would expect. Again, it's probably not much released, a bit like stress incontinence, perhaps a little leak on the dancefloor or dribble waiting in the toilet queue. When drunk, this probably won't be considered a big deal for many girls, but enough to make a genuine pee patch in their underwear (or pad, if they're wearing one)..

Next up, I would suggest urge incontinence but I think this is actually pretty rare, in terms of a full wetting. Again, there is perhaps a dribble as the person rushes to make it, but in my experience, women who know they are susceptible to these things tend to plan well ahead. Particularly as, unlike stress incontinence, urge incontinence has the potential to get really bad, really quickly, and there's obviously a massive difference between a little leak and a full on wetting. Where would that happen? I guess car would be one of the most common ones, stuck in traffic. I think most women caught on the street would sooner duck down an alleyway and pee behind a bin, than wet themselves. But in a car, you often have nowhere to go.

The final thing, which I think tends to occur more with younger women, is giggle incontinence. This, I have discovered, is fundamentally different to stress incontinence caused by laughter. Laugh wetting from stress incontinence occurs when the abdominal pressure from the laughter causes an external squeezing of the bladder, which overloads the sphincter and causes a small leak. This does not involve a contraction of the bladder muscle (the detrusor) itself. However, giggle incontinence has a separate cause, similar to that of an overactive bladder. The strain the laughter places on the brain and central nervous system causes the relaxation of the detrusor to be momentarily interrupted. This results in a strong, involuntary contraction of the detrusor muscle, basically pushing the urine out with great force. This usually means a really significant amount of pee coming out, rather than a little leak, and is very similar in it's physiological form as a 'fight or flight' fear-wetting, where basically the person has no ability to stop it or hold on, because the brain has overridden the process. I think this is not uncommon in young women, but as the brain develops, it's usually stopped by early 20s. This is why you tend to see more visible laugh wetting in younger women, and more little laughing leaks in older women. Even when older women wet a more significant amount, it tends to be a bad case of stress incontinence, rather than a contraction of the detrusor.

Just my 2 pennies worth.
Aloo

[Dinky9361]

I have to agree with the popular answer, if we’re talking about genuine non-omo related adult accidents, then stuck in traffic has got to be number one. Just my humble opinion.

[Enkil]

Falls into several sub categories, which are all basically variations on accident or deliberate.
Distraction/compromised state of mind accident, pretending to be distracted/compromised state of mind deliberate,
Medical issue accident, medical issue pretext deliberate,
Avoidance accident (no perceived viable toilet available ie refuses to use public toilets), avoidance accident pragmatic (semi accident/acceptance of fate), avoidance accident deliberate.

Most common scenarios:

1. Nightclubs/Parties usually related to drinking too much and being reluctant to either leave the action, too drunk to realise they even need to go, there was no bathrooms (beach /lawn/park party) or too drunk to notice that they even had an accident, or simply avoiding the toilet, and using being drunk as a reason to just wet themselves, more often than not on purpose. Probably the most common outlet for girls with a pee fetish to stage an accident too. Getting so drunk they vomit too, usually results in leakage as well, and for "party girl culture" that is by far the most common, bladder control is almost always lost when passed out or vomiting. (Also if they are focusing on "holding their drink" they may be too busy just trying not to fall over to have any bladder control anymore if you know.. want a situation that it happens.. although as prior posters pointed out this is likely to be a lot more sucessful if she has a skirt on, and thinks she can get away with it, which if she is that drink will seem an entirely logical thing to do..)
2. Beaches. Minor heatstroke or falling asleep with all the wet sounds and feeling warm and comfy can lead to an accident, or on the flip side, its the beach so they just wet in their swimsuit, due to being lazy, the lack of faclities, or just a little bit into it; so can also fall into borderline fetish behaviours, where they actively go out of their way to do it, even if they show no other interest in pee play. (if they take a nap and you put their hand in a bucket or water or something cool.. that can also cause it)
3. Post childbirth. Pretty much anything that makes them move suddenly or increases their heart rate the first few weeks after childbirth will result in leakage, in some women who are too lazy to do the post birth kegal exercises it becomes perminent. Some girls with a secret pee fetish will also either use it as a pretext, or having started having accidents, do nothing to remedy them; cause they are actually sorta fun and they can get away with it.
4. Stress/Fatigue/Distraction/Forgetful bed wetting; drank too many fluids prior to bed; was really tired, and for whatever reason went to bed without a bathroom break first; almost always leads to a bed wetting of some degree even in post puberty people. Although most adults wake up after their crotch gets slightly damp and goes to the bathroom; they might not realise just how wet they got, but it might still be dry enough nothing really shows on the bed. Mostly why older sleepwear was made of thick absorbant linen material in the past. (on the up side if you secretly have a pee fetish, probably the best time to catch your sleepy girlfriend before a toilet break for some nighttime foreplay,and she just might be sleepy enough that by the time you are both done you need to change the sheets, horny girlfriends tend to prioritise sex over bathroom breaks when offered.. tho you might need to be evil and "fall asleep" a few nights in a row if she still runs to the toilet first to make sure she decides to stay.. muahahaha )
5. Lack of facilities in general and waiting too long, such as the long car trip, or long queue scenarios. (stop for lots of drink/coffee breaks, then dont make any more stops on a long drive will .. cause it.)
6. Prioritisation disorder. This is pretty common in girls that fall fully or partially into Autism Categories. Although scenario 1 above traditionally is the most common, in the modern social media era; this by far is the most wide spread scenario. Girls with even the slightest Autism tendencies tend to have quite a lot of pee accidents, as they prioritise things like scrolling their phone/web browsing/doom scrolling/social activities over paying any attention to their bladder. It is not always obvious since they may wear skirts or clothes that dont show damp(this is by far the biggest demographic of girls who buy absorbant underwear today, they would rather leak a little than put their phone down!), and usually after the first leak they rush to the bathroom... and usually take the phone with them. Girls who have this happen too often, and are not into it will tend to develop the masking behaviour of taking their phone to the toilet(or always wearing incont pants!) with them to doom scroll while they sit on the toilet; so that they can leak to their hearts content without having to interrupt their smart phone usage.
   On the 'deliberate' band; this has also becoming a popular pee fetish video type you find on places like pornhub. Girls filming their ass or crotch while deliberately distracting themselves with a phone or entertainment device until they wet themselves, or girls sitting on a toilet with their panty still on playing with their phone or similar activity. So plus side here it is also the easiest category to find fetish videos of.
   (Causing this? Well they are doing it anyway, so I guess if you are dating a woman like this (which is highly likely estimates are 3/4 people these days fall into the spectrum somewhere), try to catch them at it, reward her with attention or sexy play every time it happens, and then she will just start doing it on purpose for the dopamene pay off when you give her attention every time)

[aneike]

When we exclude exaggerated drinking, incontinence, medical situations and bedwetting, the recipe of disaster must include all of these:
- No access to a toilet for a long time
- Nowhere private to go
- A crowd of people nearby

First of all you need to be without toilet for a long time. How long depends on the person and liquid intake, but the key is being far away from any toilet. You could of course slip away somewhere discreet, like a quiet alley or behind a tree or bush, so it must also be hard to find such places. When you are far away from civilization, like out hiking, there is no problem to just pull down your pants and go where you are, so there must also be people around you. The bigger the crowd, the worse it gets, because even with a few toilets around, there will be long queues.

Here are some situations which includes all these points:

Stuck in traffic
This is a classic, and it can happen to anyone. Due to accidents (of the more serious kind) the traffic can stand completely still for hours. You are now stuck in the car/bus. If you go out you will draw attention of all nearby cars. I think this is one of the most frequent ways to have an accident (of the wet kind).

Concerts/festivals
It's crowded, the toilet queues are long, there may be drinking, you paid a lot of money for the event and don't want to miss anything, maybe you have waited years to see this band. If you leave, you may not get your spot back, or you may not find your friends again afterwards. I'm sure lots of bladders has been pushed to their limits (and beyond) here. This is a situation where I think many people are actually considering peeing themselves. It could be dark, and the people's focus is on the stage, so you could get away with it. Some will take the risk and end up making it to the toilet after the concert, but some will not make it, and maybe it was worth it.

Skiing/snowboarding
After spending a long time waiting in queue for the chair lift, you are now at the top of the mountain far away from any toilet. Even if you find a place to pee, it's not trivial to undress all the layers of clothing. I cannot know for sure, but I suspect there are secretly a lot of accidents happening under waterproof snowpants.

Major public events
Once-a-year gatherings that attract massive crowds:
- New Years Eve Ball Drop in Times Square
- Sydney fireworks
- 4th of July in DC
- Chinese New Year
- Golden Week in Japan
- +++

[Linwon]

Drunk accidents and laughing accidents top by far.

But I can't believe so few have mentioned latchkey wettings. Excluding drunk and giggle incontinence they are by far the most common wetting scenarios. It's even a phenomenon recognized in scientific literature. Basically every full wetting story I've heard that is not a drunk accident or caused by laughing are either latchkey accidents or in the car stuck in traffic. Sober wetting accidents in public places are extremely rare, this is for psychological reasons, once you are in a private or semiprivate place like in your own car or on your own doorstep your body involuntary relaxes making losing control due to a full bladder more likely.